Nobody trusts perception, eh?
Tho moral bases are gnarly, like a helicopter in spin, any panorama you enjoy leads to ‘representative fantasy’ or a real fake apposite the perceived, blocking open view, requiring accommodation to time squeezes that appear on purpose, tho cyclical, ‘unlovable’ (according to Wilhelm and Baynes). But conflict is not merely evil if it lends focus to self regard and moving on, moving collegially. This is the potential utility of bachelorhood.